Thank you so very much for visiting my website. Please look around. I pray you will be encouraged, uplifted and motivated to be all you can be for Christ Jesus, the risen Lord.
I am blessed to be married to my best friend since 1995. It was my second marriage after divorce ended an 8 year, childless marriage. I understand the heartache of infertility and divorce. I am a former professional woman who retired in 2012 after working 30 years in Criminal Justice and Social Services.
I understand the value of hard work, laboring as a waitress, liquor store clerk and Cutco Cutlery sales girl (yeah, that was the highlight of my life) during college. I still have those knives! Bachelor’s degree in hand, I worked full-time, returning to graduate school in my early 40’s for a Master of Arts in Business Management. Goals alone are good, but completed goals rock!
GRIEF: My personal life journey was crafted uniquely to develop me into the woman I am today. I can relate to grief and loss from my own personal adversity as a twenty-one year old birthmother placing a child for adoption. I met so many different kinds of people in my time as a Private Investigator, Child Abuse Investigator, Civil Process Server, State Probation Officer, Quality Assurance Manager and Deputy Court Administrator. Social, educational and economic differences aside, everyone has something in common. We truly are more alike than unlike, we all carry burdens, feel joy, laugh, pay taxes and die one day.
JESUS: At age 21, I had a personal encounter with Jesus. He changed everything. Not instantly, but as a gradual process, I noticed my character being adjusted. My thinking was being altered as I studied His word. I noticed my speech and actions transforming, causing me to be less self-centered. I said less, not completely! When I became “born again” of water and spirit as John 3:5 describes, I received a new life, a new heart and new nature.
HEART CHANGE: The change that God has effected within me that I most cherish is that my heart has been tenderized. I have become more compassionate than I ever thought possible. (Those who knew how hardened I had become after my divorce in 1992 can fully appreciate this alteration).
AMBITION: I readily admit my personal ambition made earthly titles important to me. But they aren’t anymore because once I experienced a measure of success, I realized it cannot satisfy. I knew my hard work only got me so far, but God’s grace and favor opened doors I never could. Being a devoted lover of Jesus and one of His many true, servant followers is how I want to be remembered. Did I love well today? is a question I ask myself repeatedly in self-reflection. I don’t always like the answer, but it is on those days that I rely heavily on 1 John 1:9, knowing, “if we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” I am very grateful that God’s mercies are new every morning; that every day is a fresh start at being a better Christian.
My goal for this season of life is to “know and believe the love that God has for me, for God is love” (1 John 4:16).